Monday, April 28, 2008

Celebrated XR's belated bday on Sat at Marina Square.. Long time since all of us turned up - Guihao, Yuxuan, Sam, Xinrou, Peiwen and me.. had dinner at Cartel, ate the Chicken Chef's salad and it was great..

Miss Tan Wan Ying found a pink bunny 'loitering' or rather 'sleeping' outside her house and she kept her in and named it Pink 耳朵.

Finally found a playground with swing!!! At sun plaza park, read bout it from KJ's blog and so went there with deary... it was great to play the swing again! its a great feeling!!

had always love to play swings since young, and also like to go by the sea.. just sitting there, quietly, listenign to the waves...

Thursday, April 24, 2008



Watched The Forbidden Kingdom yesterday with Dear.. the show was ok, its quite an interesting story with interesting characters, but its sort of weird that its in English, and it seems that the script is written in chi den translated into eng.. haha cos some of the dialogues are rather chinese-style..

walked around in Plaza sing, cathay, park mall and istana park.. lol really enjoyed the day^_^

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

Exams are finally over!!! Had a great day with my classmates after the paper yesterday... was on the way to marina square for bowling, den we passed by Gelaré and realised it is Tuesday!!! so the waffles are half-priced! haha so we sat down and eat our ice-cream waffle.. then we proceed to marina square and played bowling.. had 2 games each, and we were all very tired after the first game... haha too long never exercise already...

after that, went to meet biying and xinrou at vivo! got a cake from Chocz at Marina Square and we celebrated 4 of our birthdays toge at vivo rooftop lol... shopped around before goin home.. had a great post-exam celebration ^_^..

Sunday, April 20, 2008

牡羊座的女人

如果你期待一個林黛玉般的女孩來滿足你的男子氣概,碰到了她,你可真是門兒都沒有了,識相的話,趕快找個窗子開溜吧!在火星守護下的牡羊座女子,通常是積極而且堅強的。像小鳥依人、楚楚可憐這一類的形容詞很難加諸在她身上。

牡羊座的女子應該算得上十二個星座中,獨立性最強的女性。她絕對不是那種整天守在家裡,等著你來接她、送她,完全缺乏獨立行動能力的典型。對於大多數的牡羊座女孩來說,她寧願相信如果沒有你在身邊礙手礙腳,她辦事效率或許要高得多。聽我這麼說,你或許會以為這樣的女人是不需要男人的!那可就錯啦!自信而驕傲的牡羊座女性確有著堅強的獨立生存能力。但她們內心都深深地渴望著她夢中的白馬王子快點出現呢!很難相信吧!看起來那麼銳利的她,其實是充滿著童話般夢想的。而對所有的牡羊座女子來說,她們心裡最大的矛盾就是渴望征服對方,又期待著被對方征服的微妙心裡。

你現在可能有些擔心,不知道該如何扮演好自已的角色了,是嗎?別慌!先把你的「真心」準備好,以後的辦法就好商量了,雖然有一點點辛苦,不過保證值得。

首先,你必須認清,牡羊座的女子基本上是「英雄主義」的。她會傾心於一個令她佩服的男人。她要嫁一個讓她引以為傲的丈夫。她或許會比較欣賞事業有成的男人,但這並不表示她是個拜金主義者。家財萬貫的花花公子是不會讓她心動的,滿腔理想的熱血青年反而會受她的青睞。因此,如果你愛上了一個牡羊座的女子,請先不必展開熱烈的追求。哈巴狗一樣的男人會讓她既討厭又害怕,她深怕給你一個禮貌的微笑之後,你就會死纏著她不放了。你最好先讓她了解你的才幹、你的魅力,引起她對你的好奇(或者應該說引起她征服你的興趣),等你感受到她對你真有好感之後,你再誠懇的對她表示愛意,那麼前途就大有可為了!

你要像個「大男人」的樣子(我說過她很英雄主義),但是你絕不能對她頤指氣使。你一定要真心的關懷她,但絕對不要太縱容她。我想你應該用一種「英雄惜英雄」的態度來待你的牡羊座女人,才是比較適當的。

絕大多數的牡羊座女子都很好強,她們堅持要在對方的心目中保持最重要的地位。當然她也會把你擺在她心中最重要的位置。而且她很忠實、很大方。她願意與你分享她的一切。當然,她也會認為你應該與她分享一切,包括你的秘密。欺騙你的牡羊座女人,有如犯了欺君之罪一樣的嚴重。這一點你可千萬要記住,她情願聽你令她心碎的懺悔,也不要接受美麗的謊言。你最好少在她面前誇獎其她的女孩,尤其是那種由衷的讚美,極可能會引起雷霆大火。

我有好幾位牡羊座的好友,每次有聚會的時候,我一定只和她們的另一半保持禮貌性的交談,儘量避免談笑風生的場面。或許,你也會察覺,她的朋友也在刻意跟你保持一些距離,你可別以為大家都是敬鬼神而遠之。這是因為牡羊座的女人在朋友圈中,多半是大姐頭類型的人物,她很講意氣,很樂意幫助別人,因此,同性的朋友才不願意引起不必要的誤會。牡羊座的女人確實有點霸道,不過這也是她個性中可愛之處。遇到事情,她常常會挺身而出,她對朋友講義氣,對你也絕對如此。牡羊座的女人是會為愛人拚命的。

我有個經商的朋友娶了位能幹的牡羊座妻子。婚後,她的確成功的扮演著賢內助的角色,使他原本就蒸蒸日上的事業,更加飛黃騰達。我這個朋友什麼都好,既有才幹又顧家,只可惜風流本性始終改不了,不過索性都是逢場作戲,沒有驚動到太座大人,沒想到有一回遇上了一個厲害角色。這個女人對他死纏不放。尋死要活,搞到最後,他實在沒辦法了,只好老實向太太招供。或許很多女人會傷痛欲絕的跑回娘家去,要不就是跟老公又吵又鬧。我這個朋友的太太可沒這麼軟弱,她先是把我的朋友好好的數落一頓,然後問清楚了那個女人的住處,立刻趕到那兒去。她跟那個女人說:「妳要死要活,是妳的事,如果妳再敢找我老公,我就告妳,妳最好不要得寸進尺,否則我就讓妳死的很難看!」

只花了三分鐘,這位牡羊座的妻子就把困擾老公兩個多月的問題解決了!誰敢說她不是賢內助呢!牡羊座女人永遠胳臂朝內,槍口朝外的態度是非常令人激賞的,但是你千萬要記住你們是一體的,吃裡扒外的男人可就要吃不了兜著走囉!

由於她們那麼積極堅強的個性,許多牡羊座的女子都會給人一種尖銳、而且愛找麻煩的印象。在表面上,她們是不會讓別人(尤其是男人)佔便宜的。很多人會認為牡羊座的女人總是尖嘴利牙的得理不饒人。正因為如此,她們常常會吃些暗虧,受到挫折,她們總是比其他的女孩活得辛苦一些。其實,你應該明白,她們的內心多半是正直、善良,而且脆弱的。只要你真心的關懷她,在她受了委屈的時侯,給她一個溫暖的懷抱,她會成為你一生忠實可靠的伴侶。

牡羊座的女人幾乎都可以成為出色的職業婦女,也同時能做稱職的家庭主婦。事實上,讓她擁有自已的事業對你們的婚姻是有幫助的。當她儘量在工作上發揮了她的好勝心和征服慾之後,回到家裡做綿羊的機會就比較大了。如果要一個精力旺盛的牡羊座女子,把心思全放在「你」的身上,我擔心你會有點受不了的。至於家庭,你大可放心,她雖然柴米油鹽之類的瑣事,不是那麼有興趣,但好強的她,不會讓自已成為一個失敗的主婦的。
還有件事你該慶幸,那就是我很少看到一個邋遢的牡羊座妻子,她們大多都在婚後依然保持光鮮亮麗,不願意別人譏笑她老公娶了個黃臉婆。就算偶爾懶散一下,只要老公稍加提醒,她們立刻就會警覺。我有個產後稍微發福的牡羊座女友,就因為老公說了一句「以前我最欣賞妳那雙修長的腿了。」她硬是兩個月減肥了二十磅。就憑她這股堅強的毅力,你能不相信她會全力以赴的做個好妻子嗎?

牡羊座的女人與「性」
在性愛方面,牡羊座的女人多數是激情熱烈的,她們很少會是纏綿悱惻、細火慢燉的類型。拖拖拉拉、瑣瑣碎碎的男人,會讓她覺得很不耐煩。在性愛的場面中,她依然保持著自信、明朗的氣質。牡羊座的女人很乾脆,「Yes」「No」分得很清楚,很少有什麼半推半就的情況。

牡羊座的女子與十二個星座的男人
1.牡羊座:或許有一些單調,但基本上的看法多數一致,步調很容易配合。不過妳得要懂得「第二名」哲學才好哦!
2.金牛座:妳會欣賞她的腳踏實地,卻受不了他的不溫不火,而他對妳的大女人主義,恐怕是不敢恭維,妳要學習「沈默是金」。
3.雙子座:他會讓妳覺得十分有趣,但試圖掌握他會讓妳覺得沒有安全感,更會令他窒息。
4.巨蟹座:他的溫體貼會讓妳覺得窩心,他的情緒化會讓妳覺得他有些軟弱,而妳尖銳的言詞卻很容易剌傷他。
5.獅子座:他會讓妳覺得真的遇上了夢中的王子,但妳必學習作個公主的樣子,如果硬要作皇太后,那麼愛情就要消失囉。
6.處女座:你們彼此有著奇特的吸引力,雖然有太多地方你們完全不同。或許是他不厭其煩的叮嚀,讓妳了解了他真實的關心。而妳的明朗直率,照亮了他原本太過平實單調的生命。
7.天秤座:他會引起妳征服他的慾望。爾後妳會覺得他的溫柔纏綿無法配合妳熱情的步調。而他也會害怕妳稍嫌霸道的個性。
8.天蠍座:表面上妳似乎總是佔上風,事實上,妳可討不了便宜。你們彼此都在享受戰爭的剌激,忍受傷痛的煎熬。
9.射手座:這是個歡喜冤家的搭配,吵吵好好,有如扮家家酒一樣。你喜歡充滿理想的他,又生氣酷愛自由的他。而他欣賞妳始終同一戰線的義氣,卻又受不了妳管得太多。

10.摩羯座:如果妳堅持要做家裡的風紀股長,那麼這個男人是不能接受的。他是忠實可靠的,但他也是保守而固執的。
11.水瓶座:妳是熾烈的,他是涼涼的,他對妳很好,但始終沒有熱烈的追求,妳很難掌握他,這就是他一直吸引妳的原因吧!
12.雙魚座:他的羅曼蒂克令人響往,但他的情緒起伏讓妳吃不消。妳的直言無諱可能會把他嚇跑。如果想要他妳得做隻綿羊才行。



有些部分还蛮准的……这几天都没好好读书,整天想些有的没的,也不知道自己在干什么。有几部想看的电影:The Forbidden Kingdom, Escape from Huang Shi, The Other Boleyn Girl, Definitely Maybe..看来考试后不会空闲了……不知为何,近来总觉得很累,有点心神不定的感觉,好想出国散散心……

Friday, April 18, 2008

昨天考了AAC103修辞学,似乎就好像一切考试都结束了。考完式就出去玩了一整天,将近午夜才到家。到了Bugis逛街,再到四马路观音庙拜拜,然后晚餐还吃了麻辣火锅,真是痛快!
晚间和几个志同道合的同学到Drama centre theatre 观看“都是当兵惹的祸”。演员们卖力的演出真叫人不得不为之所感动啊。 “潇潇洒洒风风光光的音乐喜剧!” – 联合早报
在考完式后观看此剧果然再恰当不过了,因为笑声不断,真令人将一切烦恼抛掷九霄云外,可谓解压良药!

Saturday, April 12, 2008

finally finished and submitted my last assignment, AAJ131 report on mon... was just slacking and rotting at home while trying to study for ALS test... found out what are the topics for the different days, and thought writer's identity will come out.. but it din.. what came out was: what are the basic elements of a good argument? never thought that this will come out, never even remembered it as a topic.. lol.. luckily i remembered my tutor saying argument=claim+justification.. so i just wrote on these 2 points..

Went for tuition earlier in the day, then went to CCHMS bazaar by the lake with parents.. the downpour really drenched us, but am really happy to see my teachers again.. Saw Mrs Kee with her son, she still recognise me and remember my name!! so happy.. Also met Ms Wong Peng Kwee, she was in charge of traffic control, what a tough job lol having to stand in the rain (with umbrella but the rain was very heavy) to control the traffic flow... quite surprising, as i thought this kind of job shouldn't be assigned to teachers? somemore she's now a HOD.. well anyway, chatted with her too and she also remember my name! haha at least it shows that i'm not just any normal person in sec sch whom teachers forget after graduation.. lol it might not be a good thing either.. Also saw Mr Wang Feng, he recognise me but dont think he remembers my name... it feels great to see the teachers again, as they really taught me alot back then.. not only content knowledge of the subjects, but also philosophies of life.. too bad i din get to see somebody else í'd like to see =P doubt that person will be there anyway.. haha

Somehow, i miss sec sch days, i guess thats the most important part of my sch life, and the most memorable days i had in my sch life.. of course certain incident that happened back then made me sad and tried to avoid alot of classmates, but as i grew, i learnt that it is this kind of incident that provides me with learnig opportunities.. leant who are the true frens around, learnt to appreciate the help rendered from somebody i used to disliked, and most importantly, learnt to cherish life and be happy and content that i'm able to wake up each morning... will never forget his words, cos if not for him i'd never want to stand up and forge on....

Saturday, April 05, 2008


Had a great surprise this morning not long after i woke up! Received this big bouquet of flowers!! Thanks dear for the great surprise!! ^_^


Took a few photos before leaving house to Vivo... Meet MISS TAN who happens to be at Vivo also, and got my present from her, so creative of her to use the calendar as a 'card'..


Had a nice nice day today!!! Shopped around at Vivo and Harbourfront centre, before going for Hanabi buffet dinner... the buffet was great! the sashimi were very fresh! Really enjoyed myself... THANKS ALOT DEARY FOR MAKING MY 20TH BIRTHDAY SUCH A MEMORABLE ONE ^_^


Home sweet home, and kor bought a 933 golden pillow curry chicken bun as my bday 'cake'.. creative of him also, seems like i've got lots of pleasant surprises this year!


Below are the presents i received from my frens last week...

3D doraemon puzzle and keychain from xinrou and samartha...

and this antique hello kitty phone from gh and pw...
Finally submitted ALS this afternoon.. such a stupid thing to do--travel all the way to school just to hand in the paper... anyway, its qing ming jie today, or rather yesterday... mum cooked alot of food to pray to my grandparents..


This is my grandmother's tomb..

My grandfather's tomb.. its abit too small, but notice that it was carnations that we offered to my grandfather.. those carnations were actually meant for my grandmother, but we took the wrong ones lol.. it seems funny to be offering carnations to grandfather..

Nice flowers though.. anyway, read up somewhere that a survey showed that most guys would be happy to receive flowers but seldom do they get so.. i guess flowers really do have the ability to cheer people up be it female or male...

The photos were taken during tomb sweeping last sun... wondered if this kind of tradition will carry on for how long...

anyway, thx for the birthday greetings my dear frens, esp TAN WANYING who called at 12midnight sharp hahaha..am so touched by the gesture thx alot... also many thanks to Samartha who's the first to sms me, you never failed to do so gal, really thankz alot.. Am so glad to have these frens with me, friendships are everlasting...

Still left with children's literature essay...

Wednesday, April 02, 2008

A long long time since i last blogged... Fell sick last tues, had a high fever of 39.5degrees, cough n sore throat... Still having a cough now.. had planned to celebrate my lunaar birthday(last wed) with my family de but was feeling sick, so postponed till coming sun.. hah..

Celebrated my birthday in advance with Celia, Sam and Xinrou in advance last sat.. received a doraemon 3d puzzle, hello kitty antique phone and a keychain.. Thanks gals.. Had dinner at a Japanese ramen restaurant at Suntec.. they serve very spicy ramen there!! haha nice food...

Went tomb sweeping on early sun morn, and theres massive jam on jalan bahar.. PIE's jalan bahar exit had a long queue too.. so this year we spent almost half a day thre and only managed to reach home ard noon.. slept all the way to evening and have dinner... slept alot alot as i was feeling very tired...

finally submitted ICT SCLP, and was delighted at prof tan's comments that our SCLP is very good and among the higher level ones for Chinese course students.. haha hopefully our grade turns out to be of higher level too :p Still leeft with als research paper, which is more or less done, just need to find more references.. Children's literature report still on the intro... gotta finish all the work soon and start on my revision for exams!! only then can i enjoy myself during the holidayS!