Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Punggol North had this Racial Harmony day celebration on Sunday evening.. There's a street parade, plus a cultural food fair, with many religious organisations providing free food... So after the game of badminton with Deary at Greendale, I went to the celebration with my mum, ate quite alot of food, like Kueh Tutu, mee goreng, mee siam, peking duck, carrot cake etc.. It was very crowded, and this is a rather rare scene to see in Punggol new town haha except on peak hours on trains lol.. after the feast, went back home and touch up on my ppt slides for next day's lessons...

Monday is the first day i tried teaching... used the Iflashbook to teach the P2s, and the ppt slides to teach the P4s... well few points to take note from my CT is that i need to raise my voice abit for the P2s else they wun be scared... as for the P4s, she said that i need to slow down abit and ask them more questions.. haha well i guess everything went on quite smoothly, and she commented that my slides are nice hahah... yeah!

today went thru a compre with the p4s, then ask them about the chap i taught yesterday... glad that they're able to grasp the meaning behind the story... Went home to sleep awhile, and prepare new ppt lesson for P2s, and then went out to Vivo city to meet up with my sis and cousins+her frens, to discuss bout her wedding stuff... first time being a jie-mei for a wedding, seems like there're lots of stuff to prepare and take note of... but i think its goign to be fun! haha

oh ya, and its racial harmony celebration in our sch today, so we hav to wear ethnic costumes, and they only informed us ytd... luckily i can still fit into the blouse i bought during sec sch hahah... but looks like a red ang-bao.. well its ok, most of the kids are wearing red/pink also, so it kind of feels like CNY...

Friday, July 17, 2009

Last sun, went to the Hokkaido food fair at TM.. it was so crowded... the food was rather ex over there, but there are still so many ppl lol.. din really see anything special or nice, so we din get much except for the 1-for-1 strawberry mousse that they're having promotion lol...



This was the strawberry mousse we got, it looks like some strawberry icecream.. and tastes really nice...



Halfway through eating, got a surprise! As there's a layer of cheesecake beneath the strawberry mousse! it was great! hahah a nice dessert after lunch ^_^


On Wed evening, went Hougang for badminton with deary from 4-6, then we go to Hougang Ave.8, there's is restaurant style western food in a coffeeshop... the price is ok just typical western food prices in coffeeshop, but the they serve like a restaurant! there's even a menu! haha so we ordered our food and enjoyed them..



I had this Hotplate Black pepper chicken, though a little too salty, but its nice! the chicken is tender and not too oily!



this is the Sirloin steak deary had...

there's also a soup with garlic bread, and a small choco fondue as dessert, so we were really full after the meal.. so we walked a few bus stops down to take a bus home..

there'll be more badminton sessions to come next week, its a good way of relaxing, so i should engage in this kind of activity more often.. ^_^ shall try to prepare for my lessons next week, yeah I'll be teaching! hahah hopefully it'll be a good experience...

Saturday, July 11, 2009

Went for a game of badminton at Tampines before going for Dim Sum buffet at Excelsior hotel on Youth day holiday... The food was great! We tasted almost all the dim sum items except for a few fried ones... It cost only $12.90++ per adult on weekdays for lunch, so i think its quite worth it ^_^

For the rest of the week, was just bored in school, observing lessons and assisted my CT in controlling the class abit.. Walked around and check that they did their work etc.. Luckily got to walk around, else I'll sure fall asleep in class lol..

Thurs went to PS to meet deary after school before goin for Peiwen's 21st birthday party.. walked around in PS, wanted to watch movie, but seems that there isn't any nice ones, or rather, we've watched all those that's nice now... so we went to Secret recipe and had their tea-time cake special, had this Apple Crumble cheesecake, it was delicious! hhah then afterthat went Kovan Melody for PW's bday party at evening... played Wii overthere, played mario-kart, it was fun and funny hahah, also played bowling and tennis...

Just came back from tuitions, later going to play table-tennis! hahah den lily they all will be coming over for mahjong, yes mahjong again lol... since they drive and i dun hav to leave my house, i dun mind lol...

Sunday, July 05, 2009

After 2 sessions of tutions ytd, went home to change before going for a last min decided badminton session with deary at Greendale Pri... had difficulty finding the entrance to the sch, cos i tot we can get in thru the main gate.. it turns out that only one door at the other end(near punggol plaza) is open, so by the time we got into the hall, we're late for almost half the session hahah but luckily the person in charge is nice enough to allow us to play for a longer time...

after the game, went punggol plaza and get bubble tea before heading home... went to Samartha's bday party at Downtown east chalet after that.. Left the chalet around 10.45, as Lily and David are coming over for mahjong at 11.30.. had a fun game...

Went out to meet Sherwin and Nicholas at City Hall this afternoon for a chocolate session. Went to Esplanade's Chocz, and we ordered a Madagascar dark chocolate fondue, plus a drink each, and Sherwin ordered another apple crumble... i ordered a hot choco drink called Chococcina, and it was nice! The thick choco that has a tinge of bitterness is definatly my cup of tea! haha so we really enjoyed the choco session, with Sherwin entertaining us with his singing: 'Lonely is the night'...

After the fulfilling choco session, Sherwin has to head home for his 4 hours of revision as required by his mum.. So we accompanied him back to MRT station before going to Raffles City to shop around... walked around looking for clothes, cos nic says he wants to change his image and dress younger.. but first he say he needs to slim down first hahha but with all the nice foods around, not tat easy lol... had late dinner at MOS burger before sending me home... it was a nice and funny day out, really enjoyed myself.. ^_^

Friday, July 03, 2009

First week of TA has ended, got a nice CT, and fun trainees to hang out with.. so generally, i enjoy my time... The first week of school was quite hectic, teachers busying with h1n1 stuff, and first lesson of the day is suspended... so teachers are all stressed as they have to rush their lessons... well, the 2 classes i observed are the below average standard classes, so their progress is slower... and, Donghan, my cousin is in 1 of the class i observed! haha and i heard him telling his classmates that i'm his cousin but it seems that nobody believes him lol... cos he's those very noisy type, so i supposed his frens will just think that he's lying haha..

Went to watch Ice Age 3 yesterday at Cineleisure yesterday, it was nice and funny! Had Suki buffet before that and the sashimi are great! slurps...

Sunday, June 28, 2009

Just came back from a mahjong session at Lily's house... we went her house around evening, and played till 11.15, and i left to catch last bus home... it was quite fun, but think i'm a little too tired...

The 5d4n Kuching trip was great! Especially the trip to Bako National Park.. though tiring, it was a nice and great experience, being so close to the nature and stuff.. of cos its rewarding to be able to see the nice beach at the end of the trail, and not forgetting the famous sea-stack that we saw... the stay at tree-house was okay, as in it was a great experience, but abit scary at night as it's just all trees around and its like we're alone in the forest... somemore deary fall asleep so fast, i feel so scared being alone (with him asleep) in the night in the forest lol.. Overall, the trip was great, but i guess i din get enough sleep, so am still a little tired... perhaps i expect too much, but sometimes i really do wish that things are a little more perfect, a little more closer to my expectations... but i guess, there isn't such a thing called 'perfect match', its only how much you can accept, and how much you want to accept......

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Went to Guihao's 21st bday party at her house last night, with the theme hip-hop... haha was quite fun and enjoyable, chatting with sec sch frens... the mango cake is also nice! hopefully she likes the oven ^_^ next time can go her house bake cakes/cookies plus play her Wii heheh..

later on after the party, Lily, David and Deary came over my house for mahjong... it was fun, and i won a little haha but its funny, that David's wins happens to cover for Lily's loss, and my wins covers deary's loss.. it was fun playing wiht them, and i think Lily is getting a hang of it and she wants to play again too! hahah okies anyway, played till around 4.30am and they went off, and deary stayed over at my house... slept till 10am, then went to eat KFC breakfast! haha nice Twister heheh... 2 more weeks of holiday left before sch attachment, and 1 more week to Kuching trip!!!

Tuesday, June 09, 2009

Went JB with Lily, David and Deary last thurs... deary and i went in earlier to sing ktv, cos the both of them can only make it in the afternoon... so we went to their k-lunch and sing for around 2 hours... was having a little of sore throat haha but still enjoyed ourselves... and its very cheap! it cost only RM22 for both of us, and its inclusive of lunch! hahah shall go there again someday... after singing, both of us walked around, and we went Padini where there was sale, and i bought a pair of pants while deary bought a shirt... then we meet up the lily and david, and took a cab to Taman Sentosa to eat the Bah Kut Teh... it was nice although i just went with my family 2 weeks ago lol...

after the late lunch, we went shopping at The Store before going back to City Square.. we decided to watch Terminator Salvation, and i was so confused in the show, cos i din watch the previous Terminator movies.. even fell asleep for awhile lol cos was tired, maybe cos of sore throat also... and after the show, we went to eat Kim Gary's... food was nice, too bad i cant eat the hot plate they ate, it was so nice... due to sore throat i only had dumplings noodles.. shall go and eat the hotplate another day lol...

Friday morn went the airport and send wanying off, she'll be away along in taiwan for 15days haha.. hopefully she's enjoying herself there! went Tampines in the afternoon and shop around before goign bedok for dinner with family to celebrate Papa's birthday.. Sat was papa's bday...

Sunday night went 4th aunt's house for bbq... it was fun, all the bbq-ing and eating.. big aunt even cooked laksa! it was a nice and heart-warming relatives gathering... ^_^

Had almost 3 hours of badminton yesterday and lily david and deary... it was a nice workout, luckily i still decide to go even though im still having a cough... was quite a last min decision lol was contemplating not to go hehe but well, it was fun!
wanted to go kite flying at marina barrage today, but am too tired, with the persisting cough... hopefully will get weell soon...

Wednesday, June 03, 2009




Went to watch Angels and Demons at GV Gold Class Vivocity just now(cos got free tix as a bday gift)... it was a nice movie, and the seats in the cinema was great and very comfy hhaha its those recliner kind of chair and can really lie down and sleep, they provide blanket too! haha so it was really a nice relaxation throughout the show... however i think that $36/tix is too expensive, and i dun tink i'll go if i have to pay for it hahha...

Anyway, had international buffet at AquaMarine resturant at Marina Mandrian Hotel for dinner... the ambience was great, rather high class... hhaha thx dear for the nice month-sary celebration ^_^

Went Leisure world with mum yesterday, quite fun cos i havent been onboard for quite long... it was very crowded, as usual my mum said... played a little hahha den walked around the deck and enjoy the sea breeze, it was nice and cooling.. love the feeling... went food fair at expo at night, it was also very crowded.. tasted some food, and bought some meat balls, sausages and chocolates...

anyway, results are out yesterday! am overjoyed to hear that my CGPA increased by 0.2! was really unexpected, cos alot of dip edu crossovers for the sem, and alot of them are prcs, so i tot my results will be bad.. but luckily, i did well! am really happy to get my first A in NIE.. hahha hopefully in the next 2 years, my results wun be dragged down by the English modules....

Friday, May 29, 2009

Watched Night at the Museum 2 last weeekend, its funny but i still think part 1 is nicer and funnier... badminton with deary and lily they all on mon, and poor deary injured his knee again, hopefully he'll get well soon...

its 端午节yesterday, had eaten quite alot of 粽子 for the past few days.. i just finished 1, hahah love the 粽子 made by my aunts... my mum used to make also, but its very troublesome haha so now we only make ki zhang, which is easier to make and not as oily lol...

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Back from Vietnam-Hanoi! it was a wonderful trip! Especially love the nice scenery at Halong Bay, and the great swimming and kayaking experience... Back in Hanoi city, it was fun walking around exploring the old quarters and trying out their street food... and all the bargaining.. the water puppet show was interesting also... in all, i would say that its a great and fun trip! there wasn't much things to buy, it was more of a cultural experience..

didn't get enough sleep for the 5 days, so slept alot after i came back...went sgh yesterday, test results wasnt exactly good.. hopefully will turn better...

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Its only a few more hours before boarding the plane to Vietnam-Hanoi! Hopefully its going to be a fun trip!

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Good and fun time really flies, lol its been 3 weeks since the end of my exams... have been getting lots of fun recently, mostly through exercising lol.. played badminton and table tennis, and also went to gym quite often for past 2 weeks.. hopefully this kind of healthy lifestyle will continue even after coming back from Vietnam..

Monday went to buy air-con with bro, and yeah! they'll be coming to install it tmr! dun hav to endure the hot and humid weather anymore hahah.. went to help out at Mercy Relief raising awareness campaign on Mon evening at Tampines with Doris... our jobs are just to give out balloons and getting some donations... overall its quite nice and fun cos the ppl from MR are really nice and friendly... alr got this impression of them prior to my last volunteer experience with them.. hopefully there'll be more chances like this...

For those who're living in the East or near Tampines, do drop by the field tentage beside Tampines MRT station (the white tent with photo exhibitions), its a showcase of photos of the MR team offering our help in Sichuan Earthquake, Tsunami 2004, Gaza strip victims as well as the civilians in Sri Lanka... the main aim of the exhibition is more of raising awareness.. soliciting donation is another aim but not the main one, so feel free to go downn and take a look at the photos, and get to know about this organisation called Mercy Relief =)

Saturday, May 09, 2009

Went Delta gym with Deary yesterday morning, before goin his house and went for lunch at Marina Square with his parents... its an early celebration of Mother's Day, had Pariss International buffet... the food there are fresh esp the seafood like oysters and mussels, scallops etc... very nice display also, though the food does not taste fantastic, but still quite nice and we had a very filling lunch lol... after that i went for tuition while deary went sk lib until my tuition ends then we went Bedok Hiang Suar restaurant for dinner with my family... we had Mother's Day celebration dinner yesterday also, lol we were still so full during dinner time that both of us shared a bowl of rice lol...

will be going play table tennis next tue, havent played since secondary school lol... and i'm looking forward to Halong Bay trip! ^_^

Happy Vesak Day to all!!

Thursday, May 07, 2009



Caught 17again with Deary, Lily and David yesterday after the Vietnam trip debrief at NUS... went Causeway point to catch the show, it was a nice movie, i think the plot was great, with touching moments as well as laughable moments in the show... managed to catch the last bus home from woodlands after the movie... looking forward to the Hanoi trip!! hopefuly the swine flu will not get any more serious.. going off to have my lunch!

Monday, May 04, 2009

It was all fun after the exams haha.. went for 3d2n chalet at Downtown East with deary from tue to thu... played bowling, tried ice-skating, played the arcade basketball, went swimming, went jogging to pasir ris park and climbed the net till the top... plus all the cookinng in the room using the multi purpose steamboat thingy hahah so much fun!


of cos not forgetting, the surprise Deary had for me hahah lighting up so many candles in the room lol...


Friday went to Wan Ying's special birthday party at Kranji D'Farm.. though the weather was hot, but it was a great experience! it was fun walking around and catching up with 13/05 ppl... received a nice big stalk of sunflower from wanying too!


Sat had tuition as usual, but after class, stayed at tuition centre for awhile and played with Nic's hamster - Momo... haha he was cute but a bit shy dun really like ppl to touch lol... after that, went Shaw to have pasta and pizza at Roma's Deli... introduced Nic and Sherwin to the place and it was funny to watch Sherwin's expressions when he was eating lol cos he hate veges lol... after that we had ice-cream while walking to Suntec, where Sherwin got his hamster cage and i got the strawberry biscuit that Pinkie loves!

Walked towards the MRT and meet my mum and aunt, cos we were going to watch the 妈妈意难忘演唱会, 王识贤、谢承均as well as other actors and actresses of 意难忘 were present... haha it was a concert with alot alot of aunties watching lol but nevermind, i do enjoyed myself watching and listening to the hokkkien songs =)


Went Golden Mile to try out the well-known Belgium waffle with choco dip last evening... was ratehr nice, considerign its at a hawker centre... after that, walked to suntec and shop aroudn... basically was just walking around then back to bugis hahah.. like walked a big round...

shall be looking forward to roller blading at ECP later on in late afternoon!

Monday, April 27, 2009

yeah finally finished my exams!

went KTV with NIEgals at Chinatown 10dollar KTV its really cheap haha we sang from 3-7, until all of us tired... hahah... but after that still went Vivo to shop around and have dinner with Deary... just reached home and changed Pinkie's cage, she is still as cute as ever hahah...

anyway, got posted back to Rivervale again, and still waiting for my supervisor to call... hmm just realised that most of my classmates got part-time tutors as supervisor too... pity chihui cos her supervisor is Mr.Shake lol and he is known to be biased against M'sians... hopefully my supervisor will be good hahaha...

Most importantly, HAPPY 21ST BIRTHDAY WAN YING!

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Haven update for quite some time... finished the 3 tests, and am supposed to be preparing for exams now.. hahah but not really in the mood to study, cos of the flu and sore throat, have been sleeping all day lol... doubt there'll be much to prepare for xiao ming's paper this fri cos its more of analysing...

btw, watched Shijuku Incident and I think its really nice... though its a sad ending.. i think i still prefer shows with happy endings lol

Tuesday, April 07, 2009



Thanks to all those who turned up for my 21st birthday celebration! It was filled with fun, with so many frens and relatives celebrating for me, thanks a great deal! I'm very very happy! though got sabotaged by my cousins hahah but it was fun ^_^ really have to thank my family and deary for all the preparation work..

tests these 2 days, an opened-book one yesterday, was quite rush for time... luckily eeveryone said its not very easy hahah so still ok... today's paper was qutie ok... guessed tmr's paper will not be difficult also hahha since its another open book test...

anyway, watched Confessions of Shopaholic on sun, which is my bday with Deary at Vivo... was a nice and funny movie :)

Sunday, March 29, 2009

Went tomb sweeping with family early this morning... its the first weekend for ppl to go sao mu, so it was reallyy crowded at the cemetry.. went for breakfast after that and sent my mum and bro to customs before coming home and slept till now lol...

the textbook assignment deadline extended till tmr, which means that i'll still need to edit the essay today... its still over the word limit of 3000... sianz...

well anyway, went ACM yesterday and view the KangXi exhibition.. it was only a small gallery with some exhibits, luckily it was free entry lol.. but quite ok as we got to walk around and view other exhibits also like SE Asia and stuff... afterthat went to ate Just Asia at Dhoby exchange.. din expect it to be so crowded haha cos usually when i went there its always like not mcuh ppl..

hmmm shall go back to editing and do my ppt slides for wed presentation...

Sunday, March 22, 2009



Watched Race to Witch Mountain on Tuesday, it was a nice adventure show... been wanting to watch the show cos the 'aliens' are not like the usual aliens that we assume, like little green creatures with antenna...

spent whole of Friday doing ACC202.2 project plus alittle of xufeng's assignmnet, though tiring, it was quite fun with some jokes and gosssips here and there...

Sat was great! Went Marina Barrage with Deary, cos got the 'Real love works' event, and it was fun.. the scenery was nice, weather was cooling, and it was fun getting the hold helium balloon! cant really remember when was the last time i got one, it was only when i was a little gal then i got this privilege lol.. mummy will always tie it around my hand, for fear the i'll lose grip and let the balloon fly off.. i think thats really very long ago, cos most of the balloons nowadays are those normal balloons with a stick.... still prefer those helium-filled balloons ^_^
it was a happy day!

Sunday, March 15, 2009


Watched Departures on Thursday after lesson... It was much better than what I expected, cos usually I'm not that into Jap movies.. it was a show with unique settings and there's this tinge of sadness halfway thru the show till the end... the show was filled with solemness, and it portrayed the professionalism of the Japanese, which is something that we really have to salute them...




The Tale of Despereaux.. A nice and cute movie about the world of Mouse and Rats. It is also meaningful..really loved the 2 movies... went for swimming, jogging and badminton in the past week hahah but dun think i will continue doing this every weeek lol...

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Finally, the assignments and test are over.. hah but i'm not that stressed up about it compared to my classmates(they slept at 3am everyday for the past week!) haha to think that i still went cycling and playing with water and East coast park last fri while they're all slogging their way thru the assignments and studying test... hahah i'm just so slack...

anyway, have sent out invitations for my 21st birthday,.. if u did not receive my email invitation, then it must be on the way thru the snail mail lol... hopefully the turnout will be good, cos its nearing exam period and alot of tests and assignments due then...

Tuesday, March 03, 2009

After enjoying the recess week, its time to work again.. with 2 assignments due and a test next week... but it'll be over soon!^_^

on a brighter note, my sis won a 32in lcd sharp tv in her company D&D! haha its the 2nd prize, and it'll be placed in our room hahaha... so happy, luckily i din buy the 19in the other time... also, deary cooked my breakfast this morning, omu rice with gyoza.. so nice lo hahaha...

okies, am goin to catch a nap now....

Saturday, February 28, 2009

Superstar Virgo

Am back from the Cruise trip with Deary! It was a great trip, with lots of fun, lots of good food, lots of photos and most importantly, loads and loads of beautiful memories ^_^

Disembarked at Malacca, visited the ruins of St. Pauls church, 2 chinese temples, a Peranakan museum and the significant red church... after that, took bus to KL where we viewed the twin towers from afar and took pictures, and then proceed to their Chinatown... though the stay in KL was short, but overall, the land excursion is still great...

Onboard the cruise, we ate and ate, went swimming and jacuzzi, watched shows, took lots of photos along the deck, visited the casino... truly enjoy the walks along the deck, viewing the sea, 那种眼前一望无际,望着辽阔无边的大海的感觉,让我体会世界之大。也让我深切地感受到,在茫茫人海中,两人能相遇并走在一起,是多么地奇妙。这一切冥冥中早已有了安排,既然已是缘定一生,又何须在乎生命中那些许的缺陷呢?无论如何,这是一个美丽的回忆

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Its recess week!!! hahah am in the process of giving my room a make-over... threw away the old wardrobe and the new one will be coming in on sat! so will be packing my stuff these few days...

though alot of stuff to do for recess week, but am still looking forward to it, cos am going to Starvirgo!

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Mid-week now... but only 1 more day of lesson tmr before recess week! hahah... however, there's an assignment due on fri... luckily i've finished almost 80% of it, just adding in some more information and i can submit it tmr! yeah then i can enjoy my recess week!!

anyway, cooked curry udon and made a chicken burger for breakfast yest and had it with Deary.. but the udon a bit sour not very nice... maybe shall try another brand of udon next time... hmm suddenly craving for mac breakfast and jap buffet (suki/sakae)! hahah

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Happy Valentine! ^_^

Since its before 12, here's wishing everyone a Happy Valentine's Day!

Had a great day today with Deary, went Vivo to catch the show by Andy Lau... it was a great show, Andy Lau is still as charming despite his age haha no wonder he's my sis's idol since young... went rooftop after movie, and exchange our presents.. haha deary is so sweet to have made the hearts for me... of cos not forgetting the cute cute doraemon and the bouquet of flowers...



made a bouquet of dark choco rocher with his favourite tigger for him
and got him a waist pouch... din take the pic of that though... hhaah should have another present for him but cant finish it in time lol due to my mc for 2 days keep sleeping nvr do anything... but anyway, i can always give it to him later hahah..


Dinner at Swensens:


My grilled seafood combo...



Deary's T-bone steak...



this is the mango and peach ice-cream cake we had.. quite nice though it was a little hard cos its taken out from freezer.. hahah but overall the dining ambience was great ^_^


Really enjoyed myself today, and really thank Deary for the planning and making of gifts and flowers for me.. though i alr guessed what he'll be getting for me, but at least he tried to make it a surprise for me this time round.. am touched by the gesture ^_^

Wednesday, February 04, 2009

Nine days of relatives gathering in a row, other than chu ba, cos we have to prepare to 拜天公。happily enjoyed my one week of holidays haha... but am suffering from a lack of sleep, cos always reach home after midnight... so am very tired these few days, perhaps there're other factors that contribute to the fatigue also.. well, skipped a morning tutorial on wen yan wen this morn cos woke up late, or rather, i actually woke up on time but am really too tired le so slept more...

today lin laoshi said 健康是最重要的,没有健康,什么财富也没有用。its so so true... am just wondering, this kind of words are often heard, but do ppl really mean it? i mean, if one never face with a crisis, one will never know the importance of some minute things... am just so tired with all the ups and downs.......


当伤已痛得太深,
当泪已流得太多,
将不再懂得痛,
将不再懂得哭。

当希望之火再次燃起,
当星辰之光再次闪烁,
将带来无穷希望,
将带来些许安慰。

当噩耗再次传来,
当情况反复无常,
将不能重拾信心,
将无法充满憧憬。

当一切已成为定局,
当一切已失去希望,
将无法改变,
将无法挽回。

无言任何奇迹!

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Happy 牛 Year to all!

its chu san already, and i'm blogging here so late in the night cos i only got home around 3am... welll its funny that i reached home earlier on chu yi than on chu er, considering the fact that tmr will be a working day... anyway, went 2nd uncle's house as usual yesterday, reached there quite late, but left rather early around 11+, probably cos there's no gambling lol...

visited a few houses today with deary, and ate alot lol, then stayed at 4th aunt's house till 3am hhaha.. gambled a little (that's why we're able to stay till so late lol) still in cny mood, luckily its e-learning week for me, so i have got a whole week's break... gonna enjoy myself this week...

Sunday, January 25, 2009

这两天都在忙着家务事,准备薄饼的菜、炒薄饼的馅料等,都帮妈妈分担。这薄饼可算是我们的家传菜,因为是由我婆婆传给我妈妈的。爸爸从小到大都吃着婆婆做的薄饼,而我们三兄妹也是从小就吃着妈妈做的薄饼长大。每一年,吃团圆饭前的两三天,我们一家就会齐聚一堂,一起切菜(虽然我不记得是从几岁开始这么做)。总之,从我有记忆开始,就记得我们年年都会制作薄饼。我喜欢这种其乐融融的感觉、这种一家人齐聚一堂欢乐度年的感觉。明天(其实是今天)是年除夕,要和家人吃团圆饭。每年都视这为理所当然,却没想过,其实有很多人都无法高高兴兴地坐下来吃一顿团圆饭。对那些丧失亲人/无法回家团圆的人来说,我们是幸福的。能够一家合乐地在一起,是幸福的!

如果你身边有家人陪伴着你,你也是幸福的!所以,无论你有多郁闷、多惆怅,应该想想,你比很多人都来得幸福。这一切并不是永久的,所以一定要好好珍惜,好好把握与家人共处的时光。

刚到俊凯的家吃团圆饭,然后便和爸爸妈妈到勿洛和义顺逛,感受浓烈的新年气氛。才发现,虽然到处都有人朝,但却不如往年多,可说是一年不如一年了。总觉得很奇怪,为什么有人对农历新年那么不重视、不在意,甚至是厌恶农历新年?这是华族唯一一个被保存下来,并且大肆庆祝的传统节日。身为华人,不是应该继续秉承这种传统吗?难道现今社会人人都崇洋媚外,希望舍弃这种传统吗?

不管怎样,我仍然喜爱农历新年的一切——歌曲、装饰、食品、习俗等。希望这种传统不会逝去,能够悠久无疆!

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Found a shop at Chinatown Point selling doraemon stuff!!! they sell clothes, towels, soft toys and alot of other doraemon stuff!

went to amk with parents this morn, and walk around buying some decoration stuff and i got a small pot of flower... ^_^

going out to buy nian huo soon lol

Sunday, January 11, 2009

First week of school was rather ok, most courses alr start lessons and there's even a 25% test lol!

nothing much to update bout school life... it's deary's bday on thurs, so we had dinner toge with his family at Ah Yat Abalone restaurant... the food was delicious! haha after the dinner we head back to costa sands resort at Sentosa... spent a night there as there was no lessons for both of us on fri... it was a cosy little room facing the swimming pool hhaha.. gave deary a bday surprise with the gift and the room decoration...all photos on facebook alr hhah.. drank abit of champange and chatted before sleeping.. i succeed in being the first and last person to wish him happy birthday lol... it was a nice and enjoyable day... hopefully deary enjoyed the day too and hope its memorable for him... but he seems to be very tired..

just came back from a steamboat gathering at my cousin's house at Fernvale... nice to have such gathering once in a while ^_^

Sunday, January 04, 2009

Since its the start of a new year, let me recap on my 2008 new year resolutions:

1. Stop Predniselone-steroids (I believe this will be achieved since my dosage is very low now)
2. Better health for me and family
3. Organise a chalet with my deary
4. GPA of 3.8 and above
5. Treat my parents on overseas trip: China-Kunming,Dali
6. More exercise and lose some weight
7. Make a decision after careful consideration about religious issue

not too bad i'd say, cos i completed 6 & 7, and i did went on Kunming trip just that its my sis who treated my parents lol... chalet will be coming soon in a few days time so i can consider that as completed also lol... as for gpa, i guess there's still quite some way to go... health wise, not so good for the year, with several flares.. hopefully in the coming year it'll be better :)

As for my 2009 resolutions:
1. Treat parents to China trip
2. Stop steroids
3. Exercise at least twice a week
4. GPA to increase to 3.75
5. Learn to cook more dishes
6. Learn a little conversational cantonese
7. Participate in more volutary work
8. Spend more time with my loved ones



Well, started tuition at The Mentor for the sec 2s yesterday... was quite ok, maybe cos Sherwin's around so there's quite alot of jokes and laughter... was quite enjoyable anyway... went down to TM to meet up with xr, by and oer... cos its oer's 21st bday.. he smsed me early morn ytd and ask if we free to meet for lunch haha such short notice but we manage to make it(gave him face cos its his bday lol).. din get any presents for him so just treated him to Swensens choco fondue.. nice one cos i also got to eat hahaha..

spent today packing my stuff at home, but havent packed my wardrobe yet lol... watched last fri's xiao niang re, and also watched tomorrow's last 2 episodes haha cos i wun be home to watch tmr...

hopefully i can achieve all my New year resolutions this year! ^_^

Friday, January 02, 2009

First of all, Happy New Year to all my blog readers! May everything be smooth sailing for you and your family in the year 2009!

New Year's eve was a memorable one... started the day off by having tuition for my nephew, then met up with Deary for lunch at Compass Point, got myself a pair of Levi's Jeans also, haha first time I spent so much on clothing lol. had lunch at Curry-san, the food was nice slurps... went off to tiong bahru plaza to get ingredients to prepare dinner at deary's house... i cooked gong bao ji ding and croquette, while he cooked a soup and a vege... think the chicken is a little too spicy for him and his dad, but luckily his mum and god-sis say its quite nice... haha the apple-tomato-tofu-fish soup he cooked was nice too also its a little weird combi...

we walked to lib to return books after dinner then jogged back to his house.... then i look thru his photos when he was young, and watched fireworks at his house before heading home.. it was a great day ^_^

watched Ip Man today after KBOX at downtown east... the show was great! highly recommended haha really a nice show...

school holidays coming to an end alr.. although its only been a short month break, i'm glad that i spent it happily with my loved ones... China trip with family, gatherings and x'mas celebrations with long time no see friends, and days spent with Deary... hopefully everything will go on well in the new semester!

In the coming new year, just hoped that everyone around me will be blessed with good health and happiness!

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Christmas has come and go... it was not a merry christmas for my deary and his family this year.. dun be sad k dear...

Yuying invite wanying and me to go her house for a party.. it was at Grandeur, the condo near AMK hub... so met up with wanying this morn at amk hub and shopped awhile before going over to the condo... the condo has really nice environment and amenities was great... but the maintenance fees must be high also lol... chatted a little with yuying and we go off after staying 1 hour plus and we went amk to shop again haha... my bro came to pick me and we went Serangoon north to shop for Pinkie's food, too bad the strawberry snack that pinkie loves most is no longer available... so sad cos Pinkie really loves that...

Chinese New Year is coming, and everywhere is playing CNY songs.. seems like alot of ppl dun like CNY songs, but i'm the opposite.. i love the atmosphere of CNY, with the playing of CNY songs and the hanging of decorations... it is usually the month before CNY that is most re nao, everywhere you go, you can feel the CNY atmosphere... haha thats why i love this period the most...

Sunday, December 14, 2008

went shopping with Doris today, long time never meet up with her alr it was nice catching up and shopping around... Had cousins dinner cum gift exchange at Hanabi.. Had alot of salmon and yellow tail sashimi slurps... Nice food with nice company:) Xmas is coming and more of such gifts exchange are going to take place... Am the main organiser for most of the coming gatherings.. Haha shall think of nice places to go to...

Going to sleep soon, am a happy gal with FION bag from deary(his Xmas exchange gift is for me lol) and new pair of flats and the fish bone necklace that my sis broke last time... Happy~~~

Tuesday, December 09, 2008

Seems like i haven't been updating ever since i'm back... well, have been having a cough since i'm back, or rather, it started when i'm in china... even vomitted after i'm back...

luckily its fine now... hmm went to watched Dancescape at NAFA, and Sam really did a great job! well done gal, you manage to curb your fears and did a great performance, be proud of yourself! ^_^

went orchard shopping with deary today, and ate Sakae Teppanyaki, the first time i tried teppanyaki haha always seen it before and found it interesting but never really got a chance to try... chanced upon it today(am intending to eat Yuki Yaki but to realise that the outlet in Cineleisure has shut down) so decided to eat it... quite a nice experience... maybe its the company i'm with haha thats why eat anything also nice lol =) watched BOLT, the hamster 'Rhino' inside is soo cute! and the fat cat that's always on the Green-eye-man's shoulder... nice and cute show... shopped around orchard and got a few christmas presents...

Saturday, November 29, 2008

Am back in Kunming now.. today is the last day of our tour with the tour guide le, so we'll be having free and easy walk around...

well, over the last 8 days of tour, learnt quite alot of stuff regarding the minority groups in Yunnan... 这里有很多“云南十八怪”:火车不通国内通国外、乳酪片片卖……除此之外,还得知有些少数民族一生只洗三次澡:出生、结婚、去世……真是难以想象。还有,学会了什么叫做“走婚”。那天听见开车的师傅说我们的导游前一晚走婚去了,还懵懵懂懂地不太晓得他在说什么。后来,才听导游微微说起,原来白族每年有一个节日(忘了叫什么),是让已婚的人和自己的旧情人约会,为期三天,而在这三天内,他们去了哪儿、做了什么,都不需要向伴侣交待。真是奇怪的习俗!开车的姜师傅还说,正是因为这样,大理(大理住的大多数是白族)的离婚率才会那么低。还有很多少数民族的风俗习惯都非常奇特,令人听了不禁大吃一惊。

再过两天就回去了,有点舍不得,因为这里的天气很好,风景也很迷人。不过,当然也很想念新加坡,想家、想食物、当然也会想我的宝贝“小叮当”^_^

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

I'm in Yunnan-Dali now, haha not bad the 5 star hotel got free broadband internet..

Let me recall the places that i visited during the past few days:

Day 1- Sat
reached Kunming airport around 7am, then proceed to Huazhou hotel to rest and before starting our tours at 2pm... the hotel was quite good, as in there are alot of shops and supermarts like Carrefour beside the hotel... so after we checked in and wash up, we went for a walk ard the hotel and have breakfast... food was ok, not especially nice or not nice lol...
in the afternoon, we started our tour by visiting 圆通寺, 之后到翠湖公园。在那里见到很多海鸥,不过看起来和鸽子没什么两样。游完公园,就带我们去参观茶楼 -- 典型的旅游行程之一,带我们到那里,然后一直要我们买东西。过后,我们就享用晚餐,然后就回酒店了。回酒店后,才不到8点钟,我们就自行到处逛逛再回去。


圆通寺


翠湖公园


第二天 -- 昆明-〉宜良
一早享用早点后,就启程到宜良去。路上参观了一家水晶工厂,再吃了著名的宜良烤鸭(没北京烤鸭好吃,但是还挺不错的)。之后,就到九乡去。那里好漂亮啊!是天然的溶洞形成的。我们有乘小船,有步行,也有乘搭空中缆车(类似圣陶沙的sky luge)。这就圆了我想乘搭sky luge 的愿望。

晚上,也是很早就回酒店了。不习惯早睡的我们,决定到ktv去。


第三天 -- 宜良->昆明
早上就出发返回昆明市,先到“七彩云南”,那里有孔雀园、药厂、水晶厂等。午餐享用了著名的过桥米线,虽然没有想象中好吃,但还算不错了。之后,就到“民族村”了解了不同民族的一些习俗及参观他们的房子。晚上回到第一天居住的华州酒店。

七彩云南


民族村



第四天 -- 昆明-〉大理
今天早上9点出发,到达大理就已经是下午3.30了。到了明珠广场,
再到大理古城逛一逛,就已是傍晚时分了。
现在也是刚回到酒店,因为晚饭后我们乘搭酒店的短程巴士到大理古城继续买东西。

明天将会动身到丽江去。不过离开大理前,会先参观天龙八部的拍摄地。现在要去泡浴缸了!

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Finally finished all papers!! Went out for lunch with my classmates after paper yesterday... Also went to food fair at Expo with mum last night, but there aren't any special stuff...

Today is a fun filled day! Went JB with classmates for KTV and shopping, then came back for family dinner... Cos my aunt strike 4d so she gave my whole extended family a treat at Owen restaurant at Turf City... The food was great, as there are alot of seafood LOL... The most interesting part is that there is also a ktv in the restaurant VIP room... At first I only helped to choose songs for my uncles and aunties.. Who knows when the song xin yuan yang hu die meng by Huang An is played, they forced me and my cousin to sing it together lol.. Cos last time when we were young, my cousin and I always sing this song together, and our relatives always make fun of us(cos we're only 1 year different in age)... Yup so just now when singing, they also keep saying that we sang this together since young, made us so paiseh haha,..

3 more days to Yunnan!^_^

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Examss

Finished 2 papers in the midst of a cough and flu.. luckily the papers are not too difficult, have done well based on my own standards.. whether or not i can get good grades, its another matter lol... i've tried my best and i'm glad about that ^_^



These Penguins are so so so cute!! Just found out that there'll be a cartoon featuring them(yes the 4 penguins as the main cast! yeah!) which will be aired in march 2009: The Penguins of Madagascar.... looking forward to that cos the penguins are so cute... or rather, i've always had a liking for penguins hahah..

am so looking forward to friday haha.. hopefully my cough will be well by then...

Monday, November 03, 2008

Went to watch Sing to the Dawn today, quite nice, brings back memories of my sec 1 literature days lol.. though i cant really remember the whole story that i read last time, found some parts familiar and have some impression...


Tried a new Jap restaurant at Vivo with Deary today, as our 15mth-sary celebration.. its like a combination of ajisen ramen, and jap curry, and some special fried sob... think the food is nice ^_^


dunno why, but it seems to me that sec sch days were the most unforgetable ones, and will think of it now and often.. of the frens, the teachers, the environment, the things that happened, both happy and unhappy ones... i think a school is a place where all kinds of people came together.. knowing and interacting each other, let us gain insights on life..


快要考试了,却无法静下心来好好读书。也许是因为我没有什么很伟大的理想、没有要考取第一荣誉学位的目标吧。我只觉得,人生只要尽力而为,就不会枉此一生了!有些人忙忙碌碌,也不知道他们在追求什么,或许他们知道,或许连他们自己也不晓得。我知道,学业/事业并不是全部。亲情、爱情和友情以及健康才是至关重要的。听起来像是在为自己找借口不读书,但我不是。我清楚,也了解,一切都会在我掌控之中。

“祈祷今夜天空星星不熄灭,我心里约定陪你到永远。”

Friday, October 24, 2008

Watched Tropics Thunder last night, quite a crappy show lol..



Watched Nights in Rodanthe last week, was a nice show though it has a sad ending.. but really love the show... ^_^






WY told me yet another 'joke-of-the-day' yesterday during lesson... it was so funny we kept laughing lol... hmm finally settled down to do work today and finished the wenzi xue presentation... now left with another research paper... shall start doing that soon too....

anyway, Happy Birthday to my Brother and Doris!

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Reading TWY's blog of so-many-unread-entries makes me feels like updating my blog... hahah..

I shall start with the Sunday NTU drama performance at Raffles Hotel... It was nice, though I think the audience laughed at places where the script-writer doesn't meant to make it laughable... lol but it was nice and i think the person who acted as Weilun really has good acting skills.. he was very emotional and very into the show... bro fetched me there as he was going to Odeon towers for dinner, on the way, we went to pasir ris and marine parade, my aunt's condo-Seaview.. it was really nice and there are many swimming pools.. shall find a day to go there and swim haha.. well, luckily after the show, bro still there so i met him at bras brasah Mac, where I ate Sundae.. accidentally J-walked hahah was following Prof Tan KC and he actually also parked his car at NLB, which has the cheapest parking rate at bugis/city hall area on Sun(according to my bro)... It was a long day cos i reached home at 11+...

Woke up early morning on Monday for Prof Chew's yu fa lessons... lessons are fine at least i can understand what he says lol... went to Singapore Soka Association for a Mercy Relief Stakeholders' Night volunteery stuff.. helped in the packing of goodie bags and some misc stuffs... was quite free from 5-6, so chatted with a fellow MR volunteer, and i was amazed that he made a somewhat-racist comment... cos he was a working adult and doesn't look like someone who's against the other races.. haha but i guess its just a casual comment from him... he's from Soka and i'm also surprised that Soka has been around for so long haha cos i always tot that it just came within the last 10 years... was in charge at the registration booth so for the evening of 1 hour plus, was repeating the same words lol... "Good evening Sir/Mdm, may I have your name. You will be sitting at table no. XXX, have a great evening" hahah was interesting to see those 'big shots' ppl mainly the CEO/Vice-president of many companies and religious organisations...

In short, its a wonderful experience, getting to know more friends, getting to see how these big events are organised(esp when big shot such as PM will be attending), and most importantly, getting a chance to participate in MR's future activities...


had Small Cloud's lesson on tues morn, am tired cos only slept a few hours, plus his boring lesson makes me almost fall asleep... thx to CP sweets that i'm able to keep myself awake... prof chew's make up lesson in the afternn is great, like a small picnic session, with jm's m&ms,fruitips sweets... on the way home, told TWY some 'jokes' which she named as Joke of the Day lol...went for 2 sessions of tuition, doing the usual stuff...

nothing really interesting today, only 2 hours of lecture then i came home... i'd wanted to start doign some work, but here I am, spending so much time to blog... hahh




I am going to make my life more meaningful! ^_^

Thursday, October 09, 2008

Finally, test is over, assignment submitted... which means that 50% of 2 of my chinese modules are over... what a tiring week, although i've completed 90% of my assignment last week...

deary got me 天地豪情vcd set today, 罗嘉良!hahah so happy.... but dun really think i have the time to watch now... still have another research paper, and another presentation, before the exams next month.... well, that also means that i'll be flying off soon! ^_^

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

forgot to mention that i got a free 4gb thumbdrive from SCTU, haha now i can back up all my photos there... but think i shall get a external hard disk soon, to back up all my photos and stuff.. actually only photos, cos the other stuff are not that important lol...

now channel 8 is showing a travel variety show, where they travelled to Mongolia... looks nice, quite alot of stuff to see... looking forward to Yunnan trip in Nov ^_^ hopefully it'll be as fun as the Beijing trip last year =)

now i know, travelling and gaining more insights is a great way of enjoying life, i shall work towards the goal of travelling at least once per year =)

Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Am back from Genting trip! I love the weather there, always so cooling... Slept quite alot, its more of a trip for me to relax and enjoy...went to visit the 蓬莱仙境,which is a temple of 清水祖师。Chin Swee Caves Temple:


this is taken on bus, reaching the temple..


this is the pagoda..


this is actually a very big wall with water, but it can't be seen clearly...


there's a part of the place that reminds me of Haw Par Villa, as they also showcase the 'torturing' methods in hell, but there's only 10, and not 十八层地狱 as we usually said... i think it may be a good way to teach children of moral ethics.. i din take any pictures of that cos the sky seems dark so we walked very quickly thru that...
Its really a nice place, with beautiful scenery and nice sights to see... something of vast difference from Genting highlands, where everything is commercialised and looks just like any other shopping centres...

Back from the holiday, its time for me to start working on my assignments and study for the upcoming test...

《门徒》中的一句对白:“是毒品恐怖,还是空虚恐怖?”

Sunday, September 14, 2008



Got this candy in rooster shape at Chinese Garden on Wed... So nice the person does it on the spot... Anyway, have not been to Chinese Garden for like so many years, I think its 10 years ago since I last went there... This year is Sanrio theme, so got all the Hello Kitty and Friends, My Melody and stuff... what i like most is the Kerokeropi! hahah took quite alot of photos, but too lazy to post them up...

Am supposed to go watch Crosstalk last night, but fall sick :(

Shall go and do my work now, an essay due on fri and a presentation on thur... Not much mood to do though.. just hope that everything goes fine tmr...

Sunday, September 07, 2008

Had a great CME trip yesterday with my class! and the free Sg flyer ride makes us all 'high'.. lol.. Come to think of it, it has been long since my last 'learning journey' that i had... its nice to have classmates who are all bonded, had lots of fun...

直上重楼去藏身
四围荆棘绕为林
天高君命长和短
得一分成失二人

解曰:“如醉饮酒,只宜守旧。直待时来,无灾无咎。”

I think alot of things is defined by the way we see it, or rather, how we perceived things.. you'll enjoy the event if you think you will.. on the other hand, if you alr think that its going to be a boring event and dread going to it, it sure will be boring... so we should always look on the brighter side, and see everything as a great learning opportunity, be it from events or from the people around you..

so, learn to appreciate everything that is happening, because it all happens with a reason...

saw this quote on NEL screen "Sometimes your joy is your source of smile, sometimes your smile can be your source of joy."

Friday, September 05, 2008

am supposed to promote 一则《论语》today, but cos i hav to miss my tutorial, i miss the chance of presenting.. dunno why but feel kind of disappointed, cos i'm quite looking forward to it as i thought its going to be interesting... i even prepared the ppt slides and thought of my speech... tot i'll feel happy to be able to skip the presentation, but i'm not really feeling so..

or perhaps, its just that today is not a good day to start with... :( maybe its not that bad, maybe its just me thinking too much.. but no, what i foresee will happen really happened.. but it came just a bit too fast isn't it? well anyway, 船到桥头自然直,相信一切都会过去。一切问题总有解决方法,一定会有的。i'm looking forward to acz excursion tomorrow, i'm sure i'll be able to embrace it with happiness, with all the nice classmates around, it'll sure be a happy and enjoyable event...

每逢星期五的道德与教育教学法课总是让我获益良多。许多似懂非懂的道理顿时变得更为清晰,令我恍然大悟,偶尔也为自己的某些行为感到愧疚。同时也让我觉得,生命的可贵在于你如何生活,如何处事待人。如果生命不会使他人获益,那活着又有何意义?真诚待人,善待他人,使他人的生命更丰富多彩,这样生命才有意义。

宿命既是如此,能够更改吗?

Thursday, September 04, 2008

Finally, my AED201 presentation ended!! haha am so happy ^_^ I'm so amazed by the way our tutor summarises up the whole module.. like turning one big round to shoot ppl lol..

learnt about 亲属关系today.. as in how should we address our aunties and uncles.. though nowadays many ppl just call 'aunty' and 'uncle', so they might not even know who that person is lol.. i guess this is part of the chinese culture that i like, cos we can clearly distinguish who is who..

Friday, August 29, 2008

This is a long weekend, cos there were no lessons on thurs and fri... however, it seems that i'm not doing anything constructive for the past 2 days... well at least i went shopping with wanying on wed night, that was something constructive i would say hahah cos i havent went shopping with her for a long time...

went hougang mall with mum in the afternoon for lunch and bought some baking stuff from redman.. goin to try out some stuff next week.. cooked chilli crab for dinner, it was great haha..

time and time again, i thought i'm forgiving... but sometimes, i don't know if i'm too prejudiced against that person or is it that the persons' doings are too ridiculous.. or is it that im not forgiving enough? anyway, i always believe that 人在做,天在看。as long as we're not guilty of what we've done, why bother bout others? but it is easier said than done, especially when i see that person bullying another person... this is really unfair... 一种米养百种人……

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

It has been an interesting monday for the week, with both happy and unhappy stuff happening.. chinese lesson was usual, but paid more attention than last week haha so the concepts doesn't seem that difficult to grasp..

it was project meeting that poses as a headache.. met our tutor for discussion, and after the meeting with her, seems like everyone in the group and the tutor has same sentiments on 1 person.. its ok, different people have different thinkings, there's nothing we can do if the person is unwilling to accomodate.. anyway, i'm sure we all learnt from this project..

on the other hand, went vivo with dear, had a fun day, playing with the water on rooftop pool, looking at the seaview and stuff.. hhaha and got a small doraemon to keep me company and cheer me up ^_^ so i still love the monday!

Sunday, August 24, 2008

子贡方人,子曰:“赐也贤乎哉?夫我则不暇。”

-《论语-宪问篇14.29》

子贡非议他人,孔子说:“子贡,你就那么好吗?我就没有闲功夫议论他人。”

Meaningful phrase... i guess we should think twice before we comment/critisise on others... feel so bad, haha but its just human nature lol...

Miss TAN Wanyier completed her 6k safra fun run today! and she ran all the way(as she said so, i wasn't with her) what a great achievement!!(considering they never really train for it although they always said they want to, end up bringing shoe bag to sch just for 'show' hahahha)

Thursday, August 21, 2008



Watched Meet Dave with Deary yesterday.. It was very funny, haven't watched a comedy for ages... (Money no enough 2 is not considered cos i think its so touching im actually crying half the show lol) its nice to have a good laugh, esp in the middle of the week where alot of assignments are due for the week...

Thanks to NTU students union day, lessons are cancelled today... so i don't have to travel all the way for 2 hours of tutorial of which 1 hour is listening to presentations... can 'rest' at home, or rather chiong my moral edu assignment that is due tomorrow.. just realised that i've got no references for the essay...

heard of yet another heart-breaking story of my cousin last night... they already applied for a hdb flat which will be ready in 1-2 years time, but now they're going their separate ways... 是缘分已尽?

Tuesday, August 19, 2008

Went Seng Kang Anchorvale swimming complex just now.. it was nice!! like a smaller version of the Jurong east swimming complex... just that it doesn't have the lazy river and wave pool.. other than that there's slides, jaccuzzi.. there's also a sheltered pool! can go regardless of weather! haha the gym there seems nice also cos its new hahah..

finished critical thinking essay, now left with 道德教育essay and the moral edu presentation.. think this sem really passes by quickly.. its alr week 3, and alr so many assignments due and done...

Sunday, August 17, 2008

saw CK's tag, so i decided to blog abit more today..

相信每当我遇见一个一见如故或是似曾相识的人时,或许就是前世所结下的缘。Sometimes I do wonder why I can say so many things to someone who's just a stranger(eg a teacher who has not taught you before). perhaps it is in our previous life that we owe each other something or we cause some hurt/damage to each other unknowingly, that is why in this life, we got to meet and our task is to 'resolve' the problem.. afterwhich, we proceed on with our own life, with no more dealings with that person(literally), but deep down in our hearts, we may have benefitted greatly from him/her... therefore i think that all those who've crossed our path sometime in our life has got a purpose.. be it to enlighten you(which i interpret as that person oweing you something in the past life hence is here to return the favour) or have conflicts with you(perhaps cos you owe that person something in the past?) no matter what, everyone whom has once entered your life enters for a reason, and we will be able to learn something from it...

this is the same as what i think about things that happened in life... be it good or bad, all things happen for a reason.. and we can all learn from the incident..

i also believe a person's character is very much related to his/her previous life..


Watched 12 Lotus with Mum at TM just now.. it was a nice and touching movie with nice songs... really enjoyed the movie ^_^

Anyway, I just got to know that the Sengkang sports complex has opened!! can go there to swim le...

每个人都有一段悲伤,想隐藏却欲盖弥彰。
--张信哲《白月光》

was clearing my email inbox, and I chanced upon a few emails that i received a few years ago... am somehow affected by those mails.. or rather, by the memories...

"It is normal for a person to feel upset whenever she thinks of difficult periods of her life"
perhaps its really true.. 也不知道为什么,突然间觉得有些沮丧。也许,人在情感脆弱时是会胡思乱想的吧。会不会有那么一天,我会成为他人的包袱?现在正是情感交集之时,既是沮丧,又参杂些许愧疚,又有些害怕、担心甚至是不甘……

是磨练,还是打击?
两件事都留下阴影。
是从中学习?
是吸取经验?

人的记忆是永远无法删除的。无论好或坏,无论对或错。它们一辈子都敢随着你,不由得你选。虽然说我的过去造就了现在的我,让我过着现在所过的日子。但是,倘若一切可以选择,我会希望自己的路是这样的吗? 因为有你,我才会说现在的日子过得很好,才会说这是命运的安排。倘若没有你的出现,或许我会怨天尤人,更加觉得一切是那么地不公平。可是,我好担心未来。一切,一切都是未知,万一某一天,我成为你的负担怎么办?我真的好累。

如果你知道我所担心与顾虑的理由,请不要到处“宣扬”。。。这是我的隐私,我有权力选择对象诉说,所以希望你不要未经我同意就将事情告知他人,因为这么做是对我的不尊重。

Friday, August 08, 2008

School has started, and alot of assignments came flooding in... it is really overwhelming lol..

on a brighter note, went shopping with deary at Orchard today after lesson... he bought a doraemon laptop bag for me! haha love it lots... and i got ourselves couple hp pouches lol.. happy~~ hehe after that i went hougang swimming with mummy.. now im home, watching the Beijing Olympics Opening Ceremony. Everything was great, esp the performance with all the huge number of performers... right now, each participating countries' atheletes are marching in... its taking a long time, quite boring so here i am...

well, shall be going to sleep soon, as i woke up early... and ya, today is the last day my bro's GU3400R Nissan is with us.. haha so i woke up early to help him drive it to the car dealer then he sent me to school... he must be happy to get a new car, though its 2nd hand lol...

Sunday, August 03, 2008



Watchted Money No enough at PS on thur, it was funny and touching at the same time... a great show, typical of Jack Neo's movie... it brought back memories of the Money No Enough 10 years ago.. it really touches the hearts of Singaporeans..



It was a great day yesterday, 2nd August...
Watched Dark Knight at Suntec.. it was a show with great plot... Went onto the flyer yesterday also ^_^ and it happens to be NDP preview so we got to view fireworks! though not on the flyer, but still get a great view of the fireworks.. and the view on flyer was great, we had a chance to view both day and night scenery cos we went onboard around 7+... haha after that we had chocolate fondue at Marina square Chocz... it was nice, but the portion is more like for 4 persons lol... Really enjoyed myself with Deary yesterday :D

school's reopening tomorrow.. had a five-day week this sem.. though each day only had an average of 3 hours lessons..

time really flies, its lunar seventh month again..

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

是否冥冥中自有安排,所有和我们擦身而过的人都有着个别的象征意义?
有些人,只和他相处五天,就能从他身上学习到许多事物。
有些人,认识了几年,却只是微笑问好,不会有更深入的谈话。
有些人,认识很久,但不常联络,却能无所不谈、畅所欲言。

突然想起一件事、一些人。也许,事情令我成长。

一切已时过境迁,所有人都忙着为自己的前途迈进,会有几人回首过去,感叹时光的流逝?过去已是不能改变的事实,明天才是我们应该展望的!
There's nothing in this world that is more precious than time spent with your loved ones... All the memories shall be treasured...

Went Compass point with my mum for some shopping yesterday... i really love the feeling of having my loved ones with me...

awaiting for time to pass by quickly....

Monday, July 28, 2008

Met up with Tjc lib excos ytd for dinner and some arcade+shopping+chatting and desserts at Cafe Cartel.. it was a nice gathering meeeting up with the gals...

Well, my sis just went to SA tours fair last night, and she booked our tour to Yunnan for end of the year! Looking forward to it already... its goign to be a 10d9n trip! My whole family is going! yeah am so happy...

Friday, July 25, 2008

I'm back from Hong Kong!! It was a great trip! Didn't have all the photos with me now so will upload onto facebook after i got them...




Well, I just sold my S500i this morning, and got a new phone, T650i!
Its green in colour! haha.. just came back from gym, will be goin off to tuition before heading for weiai's 21st bday celebration...

Went out with dear ytd to look for weiai's present, and we chose a heart shape necklace from lee hwa jewellery for her.. haha going to change now before im late for tuition lol...

Friday, July 11, 2008

Today is my last day of school experience in CCHMS, it has been a great learning experience for me, all the teachers in the CL dept are very friendly and helpful.. they're generous in guidance also, i really learnt alot of stuff here... My CT is good enough to arrange for me to observe different lessons from differnt teachers everyday, it really benefitted me alot..

i have to say that CCHMS students are really lucky to have so many enrichment courses arranged for them, like broadcasting news and news reporting, tea appreciation (they even have a tea house in the school!) they are really lucky but they never cherish.. it seems that students are also more noisy in class, and as the teachers said, they are 天不怕,地不怕...

But i must say that i really like the school environment, its even better than befoer, with the CCA block renovated and renamed into 日新楼...

And so, I'm now rotting in the computer lab.. supposed to supervise the students to type their essays, but only 2 students are around, seems like a waste of my time.. haha since i got nothing to do, just let them 'make use' of me for the last day ba.. at least she's nice enough to log in her account and let me use the net, else i'll be bored to death hah..

was observing a sec 1 CL class just now, 2 students actually cheated in their test! they were unlucky enough to get caught by Penguin who happens to walk past... wondered how the teacher will handle the matter..

Wednesday, July 02, 2008

School observation at Rivervale Pri has been good so far... not alot of lessons, at most only 5 lessons(2.5 hrs) per day, haha which means alot of slacking time in the staff room lol.. Am in the pm session so can wake up late lol... Though so, still feel tired out easily =(

Seems like the teachers have to shout almost every lesson... but the kids are cute at times, though they sometimes behave like monsters... lol... hopefully i'll be able to control the kids in future...

Finally meet up with Dear today! Although only for a dinner and some chat, but am happy haha.. I will get well soon de, then I can resume my normal activities! Wanna go watch Get Smart and quite a few other movies..

Its a happy day today! ^_^

Saturday, June 28, 2008

《生命》

生命与希望,互相共存。

美好的生命,源自希望。
美好的希望,源自生命。

不完美,却令我懂得尽善尽美。
不完善,却令我学习接受瑕疵。

我的生命虽不完美、不完善,
却是多姿多彩,五光十色!
我的生命不缺希望、不缺爱,
一切都是命中注定,我虚心接受!

我会坚强勇敢,永不言弃!
I'm finally discharged! after a 6d5n stay lol.. so many things happened, made me realised the importance of health, family and frens... Life is really precious, and unpredictable... only 2 days, and the blood platelets can have such a drastic drop... well, at least im fine now ^_^

Thanks to all who've visited me and those who've sent regards to me, all are deeply appreciated

Saturday, June 21, 2008



Watched this on Shiting's blog and find it very nice.. haha its really a nice song, with so many singers, though i din know quite a lot of them.. haha.. watching this makes me feel like going to china again.. though i've always wished to.. haha there are still so many places for me to visit and explore... thats why i really hope to graduate soon and start working, so i'll have money to travel around!

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Happy Birthday Gui Hao!

Meet the girls at Clarke Quay before going to Minds' Cafe for games... it was fun! and the place was empty, we were the only ones playing lol hence the service is very good... The mango mousse cake is nice, and am glad that gh likes the bag :D All the games we played were fun, esp the Sleeping queen..

Had a great day at Vivo with Deary yesterday... got gh's present there also.. and you're right dear, its always forgive before forget.. even though its unforgettable, at least it wun be painful anymore... its a great day ^_^

Thursday, June 12, 2008

sometimes what appears to be the end, is actually a new beginning.
I'm fortunate, I have alot of ppl caring about me. I shall treasure what I have. Though things may not go the way I wish, but I guess things should be left the way they should be. Looking on the brighter side, it might be a blessing in disguise....

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Made Kizhang last week, and passed some to Dear's parents on sat... nothing much to blog about these days, although everyday is a happy day.. haha..

but sometimes things just wun turn out the way i wished it would... there are just things that are unpredictable and uncontrollable, perhaps its all predestined, no matter what i do and how positive i am, things will still happen the way they are meant to happen... i just hate this kind of feeling whereby i cant do anything to 'salvage' the situation because no matter what i do, it doesn't help.. there's nothing i can do at all.. why am i stuck in this situation... 我以为我已经看开了,以为一切都不会出问题,但是我还是没有办法阻止‘它们’的入侵。

《内心的城堡》续……
保守森严的城堡,
传来阵阵哀号。
望去是一片颓垣断壁,
堡内更是狼藉不堪。
外与内的双层伤残,
加惧了堡主的伤痛。

巫师有神奇魔药,
让城堡立刻容光焕发,
却没有灵丹妙药,
让堡内恢复正常、平凡。
魔药减少,依旧惨不忍睹。
加加减减,无法平复创伤。

Thursday, June 05, 2008

had Chilli crab for dinner last night! As my dad's bday celebration in advance... n most importantly, the steamed yam cake turns out fine!! hahah but its abit too hard lol but still quite nice..

am so bored at home now.. dun really feel like goin out also cos have another tuition in the evening later... but i shall go out tmr!!

time is like crawling so slowly :(

Wednesday, June 04, 2008

Nothing much to blog about these days... Looking forward to HK trip in July, and also researching on where to go during dec holidays.. want to find some places that are not so cold...

since im so free nowadays, been reading 《论语感悟》by 于丹,which is the part 2 of 《论语心得》... bought a copy of 《论语》at the World Book Fair last sat too.. its really a great book.. hav also been playing with Pinkie and going to expend her house soon since I found alot of tunnels and extension while packing the storeroom the other day.. Am also experimenting on more dishes.. cooking yam cake now, hopefully it tastes nice.. will be making Ki Zhang tomorrow for dumpling festival..

Shall blog again later if the yam cake turns out fine LOL

Tuesday, May 27, 2008



Deary got me a Doraemon soft toy! Thanks deary.. Had a great day at vivo today.. ^_^

Friday, May 23, 2008

at Singapore Expo now with my Mum, to go to the food fair. Its very crowded, seems like food is still an attractive temptation lol.
Had a great day with tj lib ppl ytd, went to the new bowling centre at downtown east with them, the place is great! Shall go again soon. After the game we went to tm to watch Drillbit Taylor, quite a funny show. We were doing funny stuff inside the cinema, cos we were afraid of dripping the cheese from our nachos onto each other's bag haha

Ana, Bronson got 3rd in class despite getting only 61 for Chinese! :)

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

小和尚跟老和尚下山化缘,走到河边,见一个姑娘正发愁没法过河。老和尚对姑娘说,我把你背过去吧。于是就把姑娘背过了河。
小和尚十分惊讶,却又不敢问。这样又走了二十里路,小和尚实在忍不住了,就问老和尚说,师父啊,我们是出家人,你怎么能背着那个姑娘过河呢?
老和尚就淡淡地告诉他,你看我把她背过河就放下了,你怎么背了二十里地还没放下?


觉得这个小故事传达了孔夫子的思想,非常有意思。的确,该放下时且放下,因为宽容别人其实是给自己留下来一片海阔天空。

Monday, May 19, 2008

Am so happy today! Cos I got a hamster!! Her name is Pinkie, a black bear species!! Its so hard to find it cos normal pet shops never sell.. Managed to find it at Serangoon North.. Shall post up her pics someday..

Busy as i may seem, but i realise that many things are not as unforgettable as I thought.. is it just that my memory is not as good? perhaps its better that we dun use up our so called brain-memory to store too much of the past memories.. will it be better if we just concentrate on the future, planning ahead, and just forget about the past happiness and unhappiness? No, I just want to remember those beautiful memories and forget about the unhappy ones.. its not that easy, especially if something really makes you so unhappy that it affects you so much so that you can't forget it all..

There may come a day when our brain functions just like our thumbdrive, we can choose what to store and what to delete.. in that case, we can choose to delete away those unhappy memories that we dun wish to remember.. will it make the world a better place to live in??

Everything provides us with a learning opportunity, so I think if we just 'delete'away the unhappy memories and forget all about it, we may lose the lessons learnt from that incident as well.. 俗语说:有得必有失。所有的得与失其实都让人领悟某种道理,问题在于我们如何去看待它,我们利用哪一种心境去面对它。正如所有人都不可能是完美的,也不可能凡事都能达到本身所定下的水准与要求。也不是说应该降低水准与要求,只是觉得我们都该坦然面对,接受对方的不完美。可这一切谈何容易?只能不时地提醒自己:我也不是完美的,凭什么要求别人是完美的;我不能凡事都达到对方的要求,又凭什么要求对方一切都能符合我的要求呢?

相信只要所有人都肯用一种将心比心的心态去处世待人,一切都会是美好的,一切都会成为美丽的回忆!

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Happy Mother's Day to my dearest Mum!!!

Had dinner at Hiang Suar restaurant at bedok..

Been slacking this holidays, dun think will be looking for any jobs.. haha but am aiming to exercise more lol... at least 3 times a week, which i think is rather reasonable.... hmm chatted with zk the other day, seems tat he has grown more mature over the years, and has changed his perspective in relationships.. well, the fact that he's planning ahead for his future, and wanting to go overseas for studies showed that he has really grown up and no longer the childish boy i used to know..haha..

i guess as we grow, we get to know more people, see and experience more things and hence will be more mature.. i think this is the same as 家有一老,如有一宝。 cos the elderly, or rather ppl who are older tends to have 更多的人生经验,因而也能提供我们更宝贵的意见。相信凡是多听取他人的意见,是有利无弊的吧。

常听人说:“健康就是财富”,总以为那只是老一辈的人的口头禅。但是事实证明并非如此,所有人都应该珍惜自己的健康……

Tuesday, May 06, 2008

Seems to be blogging lesser during the holidays.. haha.. not that i'm very busy, nor that i have nothing to blog.. sometimes its just not knowing where to start..

had a great day cycling at ECP with Dear last fri! rented 2 hours of bike, cycled till the U-jetty that my parents used to bring me there when i was young.. many beautiful memories.. sat at the break-waters and listen to the waves before heading back.. drank the coconut drink at the hawker -- something i never failed to do when i go cycling at ecp =P

after cycling went to sgh for blood test n appt.. went to the renovated chinatown hawker for dinner, but not many stalls were open..most importantly, my favourite chee cheong fan stall still not open.. haha..

many things await us to explore in life.. many frens, whom i tot are just 'normal' frens turn out to be those i can actually confide in.. but i think all i can do now is to live my life to the fullest, cos there's really no point worrying about the future... though the chances are high, at least its not something fatal, it should be a blessing in disguise i suppose... that made me cherish my life now and treasure the moments i have... I shall overcome the fear!

I still want to travel to many parts of the world.. hope to be able to bring my parents to Yunnan by next year..

Monday, April 28, 2008

Celebrated XR's belated bday on Sat at Marina Square.. Long time since all of us turned up - Guihao, Yuxuan, Sam, Xinrou, Peiwen and me.. had dinner at Cartel, ate the Chicken Chef's salad and it was great..

Miss Tan Wan Ying found a pink bunny 'loitering' or rather 'sleeping' outside her house and she kept her in and named it Pink 耳朵.

Finally found a playground with swing!!! At sun plaza park, read bout it from KJ's blog and so went there with deary... it was great to play the swing again! its a great feeling!!

had always love to play swings since young, and also like to go by the sea.. just sitting there, quietly, listenign to the waves...

Thursday, April 24, 2008



Watched The Forbidden Kingdom yesterday with Dear.. the show was ok, its quite an interesting story with interesting characters, but its sort of weird that its in English, and it seems that the script is written in chi den translated into eng.. haha cos some of the dialogues are rather chinese-style..

walked around in Plaza sing, cathay, park mall and istana park.. lol really enjoyed the day^_^

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

Exams are finally over!!! Had a great day with my classmates after the paper yesterday... was on the way to marina square for bowling, den we passed by Gelaré and realised it is Tuesday!!! so the waffles are half-priced! haha so we sat down and eat our ice-cream waffle.. then we proceed to marina square and played bowling.. had 2 games each, and we were all very tired after the first game... haha too long never exercise already...

after that, went to meet biying and xinrou at vivo! got a cake from Chocz at Marina Square and we celebrated 4 of our birthdays toge at vivo rooftop lol... shopped around before goin home.. had a great post-exam celebration ^_^..

Sunday, April 20, 2008

牡羊座的女人

如果你期待一個林黛玉般的女孩來滿足你的男子氣概,碰到了她,你可真是門兒都沒有了,識相的話,趕快找個窗子開溜吧!在火星守護下的牡羊座女子,通常是積極而且堅強的。像小鳥依人、楚楚可憐這一類的形容詞很難加諸在她身上。

牡羊座的女子應該算得上十二個星座中,獨立性最強的女性。她絕對不是那種整天守在家裡,等著你來接她、送她,完全缺乏獨立行動能力的典型。對於大多數的牡羊座女孩來說,她寧願相信如果沒有你在身邊礙手礙腳,她辦事效率或許要高得多。聽我這麼說,你或許會以為這樣的女人是不需要男人的!那可就錯啦!自信而驕傲的牡羊座女性確有著堅強的獨立生存能力。但她們內心都深深地渴望著她夢中的白馬王子快點出現呢!很難相信吧!看起來那麼銳利的她,其實是充滿著童話般夢想的。而對所有的牡羊座女子來說,她們心裡最大的矛盾就是渴望征服對方,又期待著被對方征服的微妙心裡。

你現在可能有些擔心,不知道該如何扮演好自已的角色了,是嗎?別慌!先把你的「真心」準備好,以後的辦法就好商量了,雖然有一點點辛苦,不過保證值得。

首先,你必須認清,牡羊座的女子基本上是「英雄主義」的。她會傾心於一個令她佩服的男人。她要嫁一個讓她引以為傲的丈夫。她或許會比較欣賞事業有成的男人,但這並不表示她是個拜金主義者。家財萬貫的花花公子是不會讓她心動的,滿腔理想的熱血青年反而會受她的青睞。因此,如果你愛上了一個牡羊座的女子,請先不必展開熱烈的追求。哈巴狗一樣的男人會讓她既討厭又害怕,她深怕給你一個禮貌的微笑之後,你就會死纏著她不放了。你最好先讓她了解你的才幹、你的魅力,引起她對你的好奇(或者應該說引起她征服你的興趣),等你感受到她對你真有好感之後,你再誠懇的對她表示愛意,那麼前途就大有可為了!

你要像個「大男人」的樣子(我說過她很英雄主義),但是你絕不能對她頤指氣使。你一定要真心的關懷她,但絕對不要太縱容她。我想你應該用一種「英雄惜英雄」的態度來待你的牡羊座女人,才是比較適當的。

絕大多數的牡羊座女子都很好強,她們堅持要在對方的心目中保持最重要的地位。當然她也會把你擺在她心中最重要的位置。而且她很忠實、很大方。她願意與你分享她的一切。當然,她也會認為你應該與她分享一切,包括你的秘密。欺騙你的牡羊座女人,有如犯了欺君之罪一樣的嚴重。這一點你可千萬要記住,她情願聽你令她心碎的懺悔,也不要接受美麗的謊言。你最好少在她面前誇獎其她的女孩,尤其是那種由衷的讚美,極可能會引起雷霆大火。

我有好幾位牡羊座的好友,每次有聚會的時候,我一定只和她們的另一半保持禮貌性的交談,儘量避免談笑風生的場面。或許,你也會察覺,她的朋友也在刻意跟你保持一些距離,你可別以為大家都是敬鬼神而遠之。這是因為牡羊座的女人在朋友圈中,多半是大姐頭類型的人物,她很講意氣,很樂意幫助別人,因此,同性的朋友才不願意引起不必要的誤會。牡羊座的女人確實有點霸道,不過這也是她個性中可愛之處。遇到事情,她常常會挺身而出,她對朋友講義氣,對你也絕對如此。牡羊座的女人是會為愛人拚命的。

我有個經商的朋友娶了位能幹的牡羊座妻子。婚後,她的確成功的扮演著賢內助的角色,使他原本就蒸蒸日上的事業,更加飛黃騰達。我這個朋友什麼都好,既有才幹又顧家,只可惜風流本性始終改不了,不過索性都是逢場作戲,沒有驚動到太座大人,沒想到有一回遇上了一個厲害角色。這個女人對他死纏不放。尋死要活,搞到最後,他實在沒辦法了,只好老實向太太招供。或許很多女人會傷痛欲絕的跑回娘家去,要不就是跟老公又吵又鬧。我這個朋友的太太可沒這麼軟弱,她先是把我的朋友好好的數落一頓,然後問清楚了那個女人的住處,立刻趕到那兒去。她跟那個女人說:「妳要死要活,是妳的事,如果妳再敢找我老公,我就告妳,妳最好不要得寸進尺,否則我就讓妳死的很難看!」

只花了三分鐘,這位牡羊座的妻子就把困擾老公兩個多月的問題解決了!誰敢說她不是賢內助呢!牡羊座女人永遠胳臂朝內,槍口朝外的態度是非常令人激賞的,但是你千萬要記住你們是一體的,吃裡扒外的男人可就要吃不了兜著走囉!

由於她們那麼積極堅強的個性,許多牡羊座的女子都會給人一種尖銳、而且愛找麻煩的印象。在表面上,她們是不會讓別人(尤其是男人)佔便宜的。很多人會認為牡羊座的女人總是尖嘴利牙的得理不饒人。正因為如此,她們常常會吃些暗虧,受到挫折,她們總是比其他的女孩活得辛苦一些。其實,你應該明白,她們的內心多半是正直、善良,而且脆弱的。只要你真心的關懷她,在她受了委屈的時侯,給她一個溫暖的懷抱,她會成為你一生忠實可靠的伴侶。

牡羊座的女人幾乎都可以成為出色的職業婦女,也同時能做稱職的家庭主婦。事實上,讓她擁有自已的事業對你們的婚姻是有幫助的。當她儘量在工作上發揮了她的好勝心和征服慾之後,回到家裡做綿羊的機會就比較大了。如果要一個精力旺盛的牡羊座女子,把心思全放在「你」的身上,我擔心你會有點受不了的。至於家庭,你大可放心,她雖然柴米油鹽之類的瑣事,不是那麼有興趣,但好強的她,不會讓自已成為一個失敗的主婦的。
還有件事你該慶幸,那就是我很少看到一個邋遢的牡羊座妻子,她們大多都在婚後依然保持光鮮亮麗,不願意別人譏笑她老公娶了個黃臉婆。就算偶爾懶散一下,只要老公稍加提醒,她們立刻就會警覺。我有個產後稍微發福的牡羊座女友,就因為老公說了一句「以前我最欣賞妳那雙修長的腿了。」她硬是兩個月減肥了二十磅。就憑她這股堅強的毅力,你能不相信她會全力以赴的做個好妻子嗎?

牡羊座的女人與「性」
在性愛方面,牡羊座的女人多數是激情熱烈的,她們很少會是纏綿悱惻、細火慢燉的類型。拖拖拉拉、瑣瑣碎碎的男人,會讓她覺得很不耐煩。在性愛的場面中,她依然保持著自信、明朗的氣質。牡羊座的女人很乾脆,「Yes」「No」分得很清楚,很少有什麼半推半就的情況。

牡羊座的女子與十二個星座的男人
1.牡羊座:或許有一些單調,但基本上的看法多數一致,步調很容易配合。不過妳得要懂得「第二名」哲學才好哦!
2.金牛座:妳會欣賞她的腳踏實地,卻受不了他的不溫不火,而他對妳的大女人主義,恐怕是不敢恭維,妳要學習「沈默是金」。
3.雙子座:他會讓妳覺得十分有趣,但試圖掌握他會讓妳覺得沒有安全感,更會令他窒息。
4.巨蟹座:他的溫體貼會讓妳覺得窩心,他的情緒化會讓妳覺得他有些軟弱,而妳尖銳的言詞卻很容易剌傷他。
5.獅子座:他會讓妳覺得真的遇上了夢中的王子,但妳必學習作個公主的樣子,如果硬要作皇太后,那麼愛情就要消失囉。
6.處女座:你們彼此有著奇特的吸引力,雖然有太多地方你們完全不同。或許是他不厭其煩的叮嚀,讓妳了解了他真實的關心。而妳的明朗直率,照亮了他原本太過平實單調的生命。
7.天秤座:他會引起妳征服他的慾望。爾後妳會覺得他的溫柔纏綿無法配合妳熱情的步調。而他也會害怕妳稍嫌霸道的個性。
8.天蠍座:表面上妳似乎總是佔上風,事實上,妳可討不了便宜。你們彼此都在享受戰爭的剌激,忍受傷痛的煎熬。
9.射手座:這是個歡喜冤家的搭配,吵吵好好,有如扮家家酒一樣。你喜歡充滿理想的他,又生氣酷愛自由的他。而他欣賞妳始終同一戰線的義氣,卻又受不了妳管得太多。

10.摩羯座:如果妳堅持要做家裡的風紀股長,那麼這個男人是不能接受的。他是忠實可靠的,但他也是保守而固執的。
11.水瓶座:妳是熾烈的,他是涼涼的,他對妳很好,但始終沒有熱烈的追求,妳很難掌握他,這就是他一直吸引妳的原因吧!
12.雙魚座:他的羅曼蒂克令人響往,但他的情緒起伏讓妳吃不消。妳的直言無諱可能會把他嚇跑。如果想要他妳得做隻綿羊才行。



有些部分还蛮准的……这几天都没好好读书,整天想些有的没的,也不知道自己在干什么。有几部想看的电影:The Forbidden Kingdom, Escape from Huang Shi, The Other Boleyn Girl, Definitely Maybe..看来考试后不会空闲了……不知为何,近来总觉得很累,有点心神不定的感觉,好想出国散散心……